One aspect of pain that I find fascinating is that when you’re experiencing it, it dominates everything. You can hardly think about anything else. But when it’s gone, amazingly quickly you forget it was ever there. Which isn’t to say you forget that you were ever in pain at all, though that can happen too, but remembering exactly what it felt like becomes difficult almost the instant you no longer feel it.
Multiple reasons for bringing this up – one is that my sciatica is gone, the other is that we closed on the Annapolis house and have finally cut our ties there.
The sciatica… what a relief. It had been really starting to concern me, and was affecting decisions we were making. Yet when it faded away, and that happened pretty quickly, I had this odd nonchalance about it. Tacco would ask me how my leg was feeling, and I’d say “fine, why?” Oh no reason, only that you’ve spent much of the past few months literally sweating from the pain… I don’t know whether I can contribute its resolution to one particular treatment or many, but I know that it began to turn the corner when Tacco did a lot of acupuncture work on me, her friend did the varsity huge-needle-plus-electricity treatment in Albuquerque, and the chiropractor in Salt Lake seemed to put the nail in its coffin. Wish I knew exactly how to make it disappear if it comes back – I don’t — but I do hope that the knowledge that it originates in my glutes will help me keep it at bay. Regardless, good riddance!
The house… ok, not good riddance exactly. It served us well and we made great memories there. But it had become such an albatross. A growing albatross. Its failure to sell was hanging over everything we did and turning what few hairs I still have gray at an alarming rate. It was long past time to go, and… now it’s gone. I’d love to say we don’t even remember what the stress of its drawn-out sale feels like anymore, but that’s not entirely true. We’re still coming down from the experience, and there may be a lingering loose end or two. But we did close.
The week back in Maryland was fruitful but very difficult. We didn’t sleep. We did far too much hauling things and cleaning things and painting things. I came unhinged over a dumpster order gone awry, which isn’t my way. I don’t yell at people over the phone well, nor do I enjoy it.
Ultimately though, we all got together on our last day in Maryland and signed the house over to a new and thoroughly pleasant family who we hope will make it their own even more than we did, and create even better memories there.
We even got to use our newly lined pool. It looks pretty good!
Before leaving we each signed one of the studs in the basement, something that’s become a tradition for us as we move out of family houses.
I’ll miss the basement we built. It was only complete for our last year there, but we more than made up for it in how much time we spent down there.
Most of all though, I’ll miss our friends and cousins. We stayed with them (our cousins) on our last night, and prior to that met in downtown Annapolis for a well-deserved outdoor happy hour. At one point an ‘80s cover band was belting out Take On Me below us in the grassy area. I sent a short video of it back to Keeper, hanging out with his cousins back at their house. Which is perfect, as there’s an infamous video of our three kids heavy into a Just Dance for Wii session in our living room with that song as the soundtrack. Keeper responded to my message with a spot-on text representation of their Norwegian singer’s falsetto. He’s pretty funny.
A night with family was the perfect way to bookend our impossibly hectic week and our five years as official Marylanders. And now we’re back to Washington, and breathing again.